I just took Dr. Phils test,it is really amazing! I cant believe how spot on it was.
My score was 35 and it says that" Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful & practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest.Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expect the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realize it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken."
take the test and see what you get!
Dr. Phil's Test: Here you go. Try this!Below is Dr. Phil's test. (Dr Phil scored 55; he did this test on Oprah - she got a 38) Some folks pay a lot of money to find this stuff out!
Read on, this is very interesting!Don't be overly sensitive! The following is pretty accurate and it only takes 2 minutes.
Take this test for yourself and send it to your friends.Answers are for who you are now --- not who you were in the past. Have pen or pencil and paper ready to record and add your scores.
This is a real test given by the Human Relations Dept. at many of the major corporations today. It helps them get better insight concerning their employees and prospective employees. It's only 10 Simple questions, so grab a pencil and paper, keeping track of your letter answers to each question.Ready??
Begin.
1. When do you feel your best? a) in the morning b) during the afternoon &and early evening c) late at night
2. You usually walk...a) fairly ! fast, with long steps b) fairly fast, with little steps c) less fast head up, looking the world in the face d) less fast, head down e) very slowly
3. When talking to people you..a) stand with your arms folded b) have your hands clasped c) have one or both your hands on your hips d) touch or push the person to whom you are talkinge) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your hair
4. When relaxing, you sit with....a) your knees bent with your legs neatly side by side b) your legs crossed c) your legs stretched out or straight d) one leg curled under you
5. When something really amuses you, you react with...a) big appreciated laugh b) a laugh, but not a loud one c) a quiet chuckle d) a sheepish smile
6. When you go to a party or social gathering you..a) make a loud entrance so everyone notices you b) make a quiet entrance, looking around for someone you know c) make the quietest entrance, trying to stay unnoticed
7. You're working very hard, concentrating hard, and you're interrupted...a) welcome the breakb) feel extremely irritatedc) vary between these two extremes
8. Which of the following colors do you like most?a) Red or orangeb) blackc) yellow or light blue d) green e) dark blue or purple f) white g) brown or gray
9. When you are in bed at night, in those last few moments before going to sleep you are...a) stretched out on your back b) stretched out face down on your stomachc) on your side, slightly curled d) with your head on one arme) with your head under the covers
10. You often dream that you are... a) falling b) fighting or struggling c) searching for something or somebody d) flying or floating e) you usually have dreamless sleep f) your dreams are always pleasant
POINTS:1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6 2. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1 3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6 4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1 5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (e) 2 6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2 7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4 8 (a) 6 (b) 7 (c) 5 (d) 4 (e) 3 (f) 2 (g) 1 9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2! (e) 1 10. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c ) 3 (d) 5 (e) 6 (f) 1
Now add up the total number of points.
OVER 60 POINTS: Others see you as someone they should "handle with care."You're seen as vain, self-centered, and who is extremely dominant. Others may admire you, wishing they could be more like you, but don't always trust you, hesitating to become too deeply involved with you.
51 TO 60 POINTS: Others see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality; a natural leader, who's quick to make decisions, though not always the right ones. They see you as bold and adventuresome, someone who will try anything once; someone who takes chances and enjoys an adventure.They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement youradiate.
41 TO 50 POINTS: Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting; someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head.They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.
31 TO 40 POINTS: Others see you as sensible, cautious, careful & practical. They see you as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest.Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but someone who's extremely loyal to friends you do make and who expect the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realize it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but equally that it takes you a long time to get over if that trust is ever broken.
21 TO 30 POINTS: Your friends see you as painstaking and fussy. They see you as very cautious, extremely careful, a slow and steady plodder. It would really surprise them if you ever did something impulsively or on the spur of the moment, expecting you to examine everything carefully from every angle and then, usually decide against it. They think this reaction is caused partly by your careful nature.
UNDER 21 POINTS: People think you are shy, nervous, and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always wants someone else to make the decisions & who doesn't want to get involved with anyone or anything!They see you as a worrier who always sees problems that don't exist. Some people think you're boring. Only those who know you well know that you aren't.
Monday, March 26, 2007
Sunday, March 25, 2007
April fool's day the Islamic perspective
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Truthfulness leads to righteousness, and righteousness leads to Paradise. And a man keeps on telling the truth until he becomes a truthful person. Falsehood leads to Al-Fajur (i.e. wickedness, evil-doing), and Al-Fajur (wickedness) leads to the (Hell) Fire, and a man may keep on telling lies till he is written before Allah, a liar!"
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 8.116 Narrated by Abdullah
Mu` meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah`s Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:
assalamoalaikum wa rehmatullah brother in islam!
my question today is re the issues of april fool`s day, i have read the islamic view on april fool`s day and basically to the best of my understanding muslims shouldn`t celebrate this day and pull pranks on others but some ppl say that the islamic jurists who have gave this explanation are wrong, and that april fool`s has nothing to do with islam?
Can you please shed some light onto this matter via proof from quran or hadees and let me know which party is correct? jazakallah khairum
(There may be some grammatical and spelling errors in the above statement. The forum does not change anything from questions, comments and statements received from our readers for circulation in confidentiality.)
Answer:
April fool day
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verse 135:O ye who believe! Stand out firmly for justice as witnesses to Allah even as against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, and whether it be (against) rich or poor: for Allah can best protect both. Follow not the lusts (of your hearts) lest ye swerve and if ye distort (justice) or decline to do justice; verily, Allah is well-acquainted with all that ye do.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 5 Surah Maidah verse 8:O ye who believe! Stand out firmly for Allah as witnesses to fair dealing.
Dear and Beloved Brother in Islam, Islam guides and commands its followers to always stand on the side of the Truth. Jokes and pranks are almost always based on lies and falsehoods, so that one may have a laugh at the expense of another’s mishap or misery invented from a lie; and the telling of lies is absolutely forbidden in the deen of Truth called Al-Islam.
And when lies are forbidden, it cannot be considered righteousness or piety in the least to allocate a day in the year where something which is forbidden would become permissible!!!
Your Statement: some ppl say that the islamic jurists who have gave this explanation are wrong, and that april fool`s has nothing to do with islam?
The people who made the statement that ‘that april fool`s has nothing to do with islam’ are absolutely right; for indeed the deen of Truth called Al-Islam has absolutely nothing to do with such a celebration or commemoration with the concept of lies and falsehoods, even for one single moment of a day!!!
‘April fool day’ is a day of celebration and commemoration of the ignorant who glorify the concept of lies and falsehood in the guise of jokes and pranks they play and have a laugh at the expense of their friends. The believers who sincerely fear Allah and the Last Day are sincere well-wishers to their friends and acquaintances alike, and there is absolutely no room for the concept of lies and falsehoods in the deen of Truth called Al-Islam, even for a single moment of one day!
Your Question: Can you please shed some light onto this matter via proof from quran or hadees and let me know which party is correct?
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 5 Surah Maidah verse 119: Allah will say (on the Day of Judgment): "This is a Day on which the truthful will profit from their truth: theirs are Gardens with rivers flowing beneath their eternal home: Allah well-pleased with them and they with Allah: that is the Great Salvation.”
Beloved brother in Islam, the answer to your question is as simple as this: the party which glorifies the concept of truth is correct, and the party which strives to glorify the concept of lies and falsehood, even for a moment in a day, is obviously in the wrong!
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,
Burhan
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 8.116 Narrated by Abdullah
Mu` meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah`s Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:
assalamoalaikum wa rehmatullah brother in islam!
my question today is re the issues of april fool`s day, i have read the islamic view on april fool`s day and basically to the best of my understanding muslims shouldn`t celebrate this day and pull pranks on others but some ppl say that the islamic jurists who have gave this explanation are wrong, and that april fool`s has nothing to do with islam?
Can you please shed some light onto this matter via proof from quran or hadees and let me know which party is correct? jazakallah khairum
(There may be some grammatical and spelling errors in the above statement. The forum does not change anything from questions, comments and statements received from our readers for circulation in confidentiality.)
Answer:
April fool day
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verse 135:O ye who believe! Stand out firmly for justice as witnesses to Allah even as against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, and whether it be (against) rich or poor: for Allah can best protect both. Follow not the lusts (of your hearts) lest ye swerve and if ye distort (justice) or decline to do justice; verily, Allah is well-acquainted with all that ye do.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 5 Surah Maidah verse 8:O ye who believe! Stand out firmly for Allah as witnesses to fair dealing.
Dear and Beloved Brother in Islam, Islam guides and commands its followers to always stand on the side of the Truth. Jokes and pranks are almost always based on lies and falsehoods, so that one may have a laugh at the expense of another’s mishap or misery invented from a lie; and the telling of lies is absolutely forbidden in the deen of Truth called Al-Islam.
And when lies are forbidden, it cannot be considered righteousness or piety in the least to allocate a day in the year where something which is forbidden would become permissible!!!
Your Statement: some ppl say that the islamic jurists who have gave this explanation are wrong, and that april fool`s has nothing to do with islam?
The people who made the statement that ‘that april fool`s has nothing to do with islam’ are absolutely right; for indeed the deen of Truth called Al-Islam has absolutely nothing to do with such a celebration or commemoration with the concept of lies and falsehoods, even for one single moment of a day!!!
‘April fool day’ is a day of celebration and commemoration of the ignorant who glorify the concept of lies and falsehood in the guise of jokes and pranks they play and have a laugh at the expense of their friends. The believers who sincerely fear Allah and the Last Day are sincere well-wishers to their friends and acquaintances alike, and there is absolutely no room for the concept of lies and falsehoods in the deen of Truth called Al-Islam, even for a single moment of one day!
Your Question: Can you please shed some light onto this matter via proof from quran or hadees and let me know which party is correct?
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 5 Surah Maidah verse 119: Allah will say (on the Day of Judgment): "This is a Day on which the truthful will profit from their truth: theirs are Gardens with rivers flowing beneath their eternal home: Allah well-pleased with them and they with Allah: that is the Great Salvation.”
Beloved brother in Islam, the answer to your question is as simple as this: the party which glorifies the concept of truth is correct, and the party which strives to glorify the concept of lies and falsehood, even for a moment in a day, is obviously in the wrong!
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,
Burhan
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
The drama starts the moment first semester begins. Why is it that as soon as University starts procrastination season kicks in, I don’t know if it’s the thrill of producing something out of nothing in the dying minutes, or just a psychological problem but procrastination SUX!
I got three essays to write in a months, and yet I seem to be not worried one bit. I know I will get it done in the end, thus, nothing I try seems to work. A friend has suggested that I play psychological mind games” with my mind but I doubt that it will work but hey it’s worth the try.
Rumor, why is it that something that starts out of an untruthful talk turns a whole community against each? I honestly think that gossipers don’t think about the consequences and effects that the things they are saying will have on people. Although backbiting and gossip is haram, Muslims have through time forgotten that Allah has made gossip haram for us and with good reason.
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said:"Do you know what backbiting is?" They said, "God and His Messenger know best." He then said, "It is to say something about your brother that he would dislike." Someone asked him, "But what if what I say is true?" The Messenger of God said, "If what you say about him is true, you are backbiting him, but if it is not true then you have slandered him." (Muslim).
I honestly hope that people will soon realize the effects that gossip and backbiting has on individuals and the community as a whole, it’s a very dangerous weapon that can tear so many people apart. That is already happening where I live, people are so divided and torn apart and its al because of a few people that started some rumors. I really don’t know what the person who started all of this was trying to achieve but they have created an endless fire which only Allah can extinguish.
Till next time ma’salam.
I got three essays to write in a months, and yet I seem to be not worried one bit. I know I will get it done in the end, thus, nothing I try seems to work. A friend has suggested that I play psychological mind games” with my mind but I doubt that it will work but hey it’s worth the try.
Rumor, why is it that something that starts out of an untruthful talk turns a whole community against each? I honestly think that gossipers don’t think about the consequences and effects that the things they are saying will have on people. Although backbiting and gossip is haram, Muslims have through time forgotten that Allah has made gossip haram for us and with good reason.
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said:"Do you know what backbiting is?" They said, "God and His Messenger know best." He then said, "It is to say something about your brother that he would dislike." Someone asked him, "But what if what I say is true?" The Messenger of God said, "If what you say about him is true, you are backbiting him, but if it is not true then you have slandered him." (Muslim).
I honestly hope that people will soon realize the effects that gossip and backbiting has on individuals and the community as a whole, it’s a very dangerous weapon that can tear so many people apart. That is already happening where I live, people are so divided and torn apart and its al because of a few people that started some rumors. I really don’t know what the person who started all of this was trying to achieve but they have created an endless fire which only Allah can extinguish.
Till next time ma’salam.
Monday, March 19, 2007
Second year.
Salamz.
Alhamdulilah im really enjoying second year, the various papers that we can do is just so amazing and it sucks at the same time. I have had to stop doing some of my RELS papers as they conflict with my Political science, but hey the papers that i am taking now are so interesting! The media and politics papers is FANTASTIC and i also like the Human dimensions paper, even though we study alot of the death and destruction that goes on in the world and as sad as it is, it is really interesting as it opens your eyes to alot.
I am proud to say that the Christ student group, have not come anywhere near me, although one of them as talked to my Christian friend about me, i get the feeling that he does not want my friend to be hanging around me as i might "convert" him. lol I wish, but only allah guides.
i would just like to the a moment to thank everyone who has been making dua for, especially bro Om. Subhanllah the power of dua is so strong, but alot of muslims dont realise this. So remember, next time that your in a tricky situation make dua to allah and everything will be ok!
Alhamdulilah im really enjoying second year, the various papers that we can do is just so amazing and it sucks at the same time. I have had to stop doing some of my RELS papers as they conflict with my Political science, but hey the papers that i am taking now are so interesting! The media and politics papers is FANTASTIC and i also like the Human dimensions paper, even though we study alot of the death and destruction that goes on in the world and as sad as it is, it is really interesting as it opens your eyes to alot.
I am proud to say that the Christ student group, have not come anywhere near me, although one of them as talked to my Christian friend about me, i get the feeling that he does not want my friend to be hanging around me as i might "convert" him. lol I wish, but only allah guides.
i would just like to the a moment to thank everyone who has been making dua for, especially bro Om. Subhanllah the power of dua is so strong, but alot of muslims dont realise this. So remember, next time that your in a tricky situation make dua to allah and everything will be ok!
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